How to Win an Ex Back After They Dumped You

You just got dumped but that doesn’t stop you from figuring out how to win your ex back.  However, before rushing out and doing whatever you can to get them back, you first need to think and understand why the breakup occurred.

If you want to know how to win your ex back, then it would be to your advantage to know the reason they dumped you.  Obviously, somewhere along the line you made a mistake.  If you knew the reason they walked away, then you could work on those reasons.  Hopefully, you will be able to reverse your situation and have your ex back in your arms!

Once you’ve figured out the reasons, it’s time for you to try and be more desirable to your ex.  They would be expecting changes, an improvement, so that they can be convinced that you’ve truly learned your lesson and you’re serious about wanting them back in your life.

How to change yourself

You’re always in for a surprise whenever you first meet someone.  That’s because you don’t know how they will react to certain situations.  But then you learn how they look at things and respond to situations once you get to know them.  You then learn many things about that person’s behavior.

To be a new and improved person, you need to change the way you look at things.  You have a good chance of again making a good first impression if your ex sees this improvement in you.  You’re still you, only you’ve changed for the better.

In a way, it’s like you’re getting to know each other again and starting a clean slate.  It’s even better if you take it slow and try to be friends again.  Your ex’s feelings for you may rekindle once they see that they can be around you again without any drama.  Also, if you take it slow and don’t put pressure on them, you can slowly regain their trust.

How are your communication skills?

  • Did you listen to your ex or did you choose to remain stubborn and refused to see it their way?
  • Did you keep an open mind when they are explaining their side?
  • Did you offer your side of the story in a calm way or did you just argue?
  • Did you say things that were not appropriate?

When it comes to how to win your ex back, your communication skills is an important element.  If this is what you lack and it caused the breakup, then you need to find ways to improve it.  Lack of communication can lead to miscommunications and when you and your partner are not on the same page then sooner or later one of you will reach their breaking point.  In this case, it was your ex.

To be honest, learning how to win your ex back can be tricky.  Aside from accepting your mistakes and improving yourself, you also need to get to the root of the problem.  Only then can you truly make the necessary changes and hopefully get a second chance at your relationship.


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